Submission or Subjection?
In Nigeria, a stereotypical male might be threatened by a woman who doesn’t need his money. This begs the question […]
Beard Gang Fall On Me
One of the most powerful triggers for infidelity is the intrinsic human desire for newness. It’s called the Coolidge Effect. […]
Can You Really be Yourself in a Relationship?
One of the more fabulous stories I heard from someone toasting me, was that he graduated from Annapolis Naval Academy. Turned […]
Romantic Scripts
I once attended a series of literary events in Lagos. I observed that many of the guests spoke and dressed […]
Do You Want Him Or Not?
It takes many mature women just twenty-four hours to decide whether they want a relationship with a man, or want […]
Say What You Want
I had a boyfriend who taught me a valuable lesson. We were supposed to view our first lunar eclipse together. […]
Cultural Relationships
Every man & woman should read this. I have been in a few relationships and observed many more. I also manage […]
Relationship & Ideology
1. Here’s how you’ll know you are in a relationship with someone who is not in a relationship with you. (You […]
Friendzone Part 2
[Read Part 1 here] I think the insatiable need for a relationship (as well as serial dating) may be connected […]
Dating 101
I would like to write a dating primer for men. The truth is, unless you have game, have joined “bad gang” […]