Community
I spent two years working and living in the US. In that time, I found two things to be true: […]
Gifts and Love Languages
I’ve never been big on gifts. Perhaps it’s my minimalist nature that craves space and eschews excess. Or, the fact […]
Living Rent-Free in People’s Heads
It’s interesting, how often hurtful actions occupy our thoughts. Taking up space in our minds and hearts, that they do […]
Opinions And Relationships
We have different opinions about different things. The trick is to not get offended when people call them out or […]
Subomi, Do You Cook?
“Sho, do you cook?” my date asked. I replied jauntily, “I used to but not anymore. I now have access […]
Gender Wars
There must be a reason why God made man, both male and female. There’s a reason x and y chromosomes […]
My Love Language
Today, I had a startling insight. My love language isn’t gifts. It’s quality time and words – unhurried conversation and […]
Learn to Walk Away
Three years ago, two quotations redefined the nature of my friendships. It was the year I decided I couldn’t get […]
Friend Zone is Not a Dirty Phrase
In my experience, the “getting to know you” phase ends very quickly in Nigeria, when there’s no sex on the […]
Nagging and Project Management
In business, we practice the project management principle called “Management by Exception”. Someone is given a task, as well as […]