Worry Shouldn’t Kill You
No one is tensioning me or putting me under pressure, so why am I heaping pressure and excessive expectations on […]
Musings About Nigeria
As I walk along the dirty streets of my neighbourhood, I realise that what gives “abroad” its feel is not […]
The Nigerian Challenge
Here’s a challenge: In Nigeria, it’s not enough to be good at what you do. You must be good and […]
Cholerics & Relationships
It is possible to be deeply compassionate about issues and to fight for justice & equity, yet not really care […]
We Are The Church
I no longer obsess about what the Church in Nigeria is doing or not doing. I am the Church, too. […]
Giftings & Character
I am deeply troubled by the stories of rape and abuse in the Church, on my social media timeline. I […]
Dangers Of Mentoring
Unless they are life coaches, therapists or very wise, many mentors cannot help their mentees to see multiple paths to […]
Time To Grow Up!
Three things define most adults: 1. The capacity to make decisions 2. The character to accept the consequences of decisions […]
Pursuit of Happiness
Living in a developed nation and having wealth may not make you happy. In the book, Homo Deus by Yuval […]
Mentor not Master
As a mentor, one thing you should have at the back of your mind is, it’s not your dream or […]