The Nigerian Challenge
Here’s a challenge: In Nigeria, it’s not enough to be good at what you do. You must be good and […]
My Internal Conversations
I talk to myself all the time. I say things like, “Subomi, you can’t be proud.”, “Subomi, be patient.” That’s […]
Cholerics & Relationships
It is possible to be deeply compassionate about issues and to fight for justice & equity, yet not really care […]
We Are The Church
I no longer obsess about what the Church in Nigeria is doing or not doing. I am the Church, too. […]
Pastor, Find Your Humanity
As a reformed Choleric, now would be a good time to remind my fellow driven individuals to find their humanity […]
Giftings & Character
I am deeply troubled by the stories of rape and abuse in the Church, on my social media timeline. I […]
Dangers Of Mentoring
Unless they are life coaches, therapists or very wise, many mentors cannot help their mentees to see multiple paths to […]
Time To Grow Up!
Three things define most adults: 1. The capacity to make decisions 2. The character to accept the consequences of decisions […]
Toxic Religion
Here are a few characteristics of toxic religion: 1. Lack of intellect and a non-intelligent approach to knowledge and the […]
Pursuit of Happiness
Living in a developed nation and having wealth may not make you happy. In the book, Homo Deus by Yuval […]