Friend Zone is Not a Dirty Phrase
In my experience, the “getting to know you” phase ends very quickly in Nigeria, when there’s no sex on the […]
Konji and Other Pertinent Matters
In this video, I speak about my personal struggles with desire, as a Christian.
You Want Me To Do What?!
Very few people are innately creative or innovative. I know. I work in the creative industry. For so many people, […]
Creative People & Sex
A few years ago, I attended a concert where my friend was performing. The organisers had booked a room for […]
Sex and Culture
I’ve had many discussions about relationships and sex with Nigerians. Here are some of the cultural assumptions I’ve discovered: You […]
(Don’t) Shake That Booty!
I watch music videos at the salon. Until a few weeks ago, I hadn’t owned a TV in years. Now, […]
Sex & Fame
There are a few things on my mind today. Sex and fame are opportunistic. They come when you least expect […]
Random Thoughts on Celibacy
Celibacy is a thorny subject to process, especially for a creative person. It becomes more complicated if you subscribe to […]