No One Will Fix Nigeria For Us
Sometimes when I’m very ill, I have terrible dystopian dreams. I visualise war and intense violence. I have hallucinations. When […]
You Are Enough
You should stop trying to be someone else. Let it go. That unrealistic target is not happening. Become the best […]
Acts of Service
I’ve heard women multitask better than men. I’ve not read the research, so I will assume there’s some truth to […]
Switch Off!
Please take care of your head and heart. Before the advent of social media and mobile phones, we would receive […]
Gender Wars
There must be a reason why God made man, both male and female. There’s a reason x and y chromosomes […]
My Love Language
Today, I had a startling insight. My love language isn’t gifts. It’s quality time and words – unhurried conversation and […]
Learn to Walk Away
Three years ago, two quotations redefined the nature of my friendships. It was the year I decided I couldn’t get […]
Friend Zone is Not a Dirty Phrase
In my experience, the “getting to know you” phase ends very quickly in Nigeria, when there’s no sex on the […]
You Need Values to Truly Succeed
Here’s what I learned in over two decades of running projects – many organisations underestimate the personal drive, loyalty and […]
Can Money Really Buy Happiness?
It’s so difficult to explain to folks that money doesn’t guarantee happiness. The typical response is, “Let me make money […]