Very few people are innately creative or innovative. I know. I work in the creative industry.
For so many people, everything they know about sex was learnt from books, movies and other partners. They ought to remember that, when they start making sexual demands that are non-consultative. They have a body of knowledge and the other person does too. There ought to be a meeting point, but it’s as if an entire generation of lovers has been messed up by porn and stupid music videos. So, some people are more focused on recreating fantasies, than ensuring their partners share the same desires and are on the same page.
Please, if anyone asks you for something sexual and you don’t know what it is, Google it first. After you do, please be sure it is something you are comfortable doing. Sex should be consensual and that includes sexual positions, fantasies and fetishes. It is not just about what one person wants. You are not a character in a porn movie or music video. You are a real human being. Do not allow your self worth to be defined by someone else’s expectations.