A (Not So) Wonderful Story of Relationships
Once upon a time, patriarchy ruled the land. Women were egregiously abused but asked to cover the shame of the […]
Dating Playbook
In Nigeria, it is assumed both men and women know the rules of the “dating game”. So when a woman […]
Sex and Culture
I’ve had many discussions about relationships and sex with Nigerians. Here are some of the cultural assumptions I’ve discovered: You […]
The One That Got Away
This is the story of the one who got away. A few years ago, I was in a relationship with […]
Relationship Currency
Cash is a weak relationship currency. A woman who dates for money browses through men like she’s shopping. You were the […]
After the Date
The most important part of a date for me, is when we linger after a meal or a movie. It’s the drink […]
Conversations with an Introvert
It can be frustrating being friends with an introvert. Sometimes it’s difficult to keep the conversation going or to get […]
A Single Woman’s Missive
Letter to My Mentor-Inspired by the #Letr2Jil Twitter series Dear LA, a potential suitor recently asked why I wasn’t married. […]