I Just Want To Feel Something
I recently started drinking again after a long time of not drinking. Yesterday, as I considered my glass of single […]
You Will Have More Than One Idea
I spoke to a young man recently about a business proposition. He was more concerned about the money he would […]
Money Cannot Always Buy Competence
Competence is the capacity to consistently deliver, without being micro-managed. But sometimes, it is assumed competence is about skills or […]
No One Will Fix Nigeria For Us
Sometimes when I’m very ill, I have terrible dystopian dreams. I visualise war and intense violence. I have hallucinations. When […]
You Are Enough
You should stop trying to be someone else. Let it go. That unrealistic target is not happening. Become the best […]
Acts of Service
I’ve heard women multitask better than men. I’ve not read the research, so I will assume there’s some truth to […]
Switch Off!
Please take care of your head and heart. Before the advent of social media and mobile phones, we would receive […]
Gender Wars
There must be a reason why God made man, both male and female. There’s a reason x and y chromosomes […]
My Love Language
Today, I had a startling insight. My love language isn’t gifts. It’s quality time and words – unhurried conversation and […]
Learn to Walk Away
Three years ago, two quotations redefined the nature of my friendships. It was the year I decided I couldn’t get […]